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phonequeen4u |
Where TO START-A NEWBIES GUIDE TO BEING A PSO |
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hotleesa |
Re: Where TO START-A NEWBIES GUIDE TO BEING A PSO | #1 | ||
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I put a little bold and underline in, I think it's easier to read like this
======================================================= Types of Phone Sex Companies Before applying with a phone sex company, it's important to be familiar with the types of companies that are out there. Here is an explanation of four main types of services that employ work at home performers: 1. Dispatch companies - the phone sex company handles all the advertising. A dispatcher gets the clients' payment information and finds out his preferences and routes the calls to you. The pay is usually lower because less is expected of you. You may be required to have a headset, a corded phone and a second phone line just for work, depending on the company. Many dispatch companies expect you to be able to handle just about any kind of character/age group/ethnic background and no conversation is taboo at some companies. Pay ranges from .07 cents per minute up to .70 cents a minute and a select few services pay as much as a dollar a minute for experienced talent. Average pay seems to be from .25 to .55 cents for most dispatch companies. A few of the large companies have a sliding pay scale which can be rather confusing and difficult for new ops to attain the higher pay rungs, so beware of this. 2. Direct call companies - Calls come in directly to you without going thru a dispatcher first. You will be responsible for processing the client's payment or at least for verifying online that he has paid for the call. You need to be prepared to answer calls from callers who just want to ask questions or whose payments are declined, etc. Some companies provide and pay for your 800 number, some companies require you to provide your own 800 service. You may be required to have two phone lines and simultaneous Internet & phone access. Check the phone sex company's requirements before applying. The rate of pay with Direct Call companies is usually higher than it is with dispatch companies. 3. Self-advertising or "trolling" companies This type of company requires you to do your own advertising & promotion to get callers. Some self-advertising companies will require you to be in various chat rooms to chat with potential callers so you may need to have chat programs on your computer and / or a subscription to the AOL service. Other types of advertising such as newsgroups, bulletin board posts, having a website and doing banner exchanges, etc etc could be required or suggested as part of the job. You'll probably need to have an Internet connection that lets you be on the phone & the computer at the same time. You may have to provide your own 800 number service and/or have two phone lines also. Average pay is higher with self-advertising companies since you are required to bring in your own clients, but not everyone is able to do it successfully. The pay per minute ranges from .75 cents to a dollar per minute and above. 4. Combination services - will expect you to bring in some of your own clients through your own efforts but will also have a dispatch system set up where callers are routed to you. Requirements vary, check each phone sex company's requirements before applying. Another choice is phone sex affiliate programs. When you sign on with an affiliate program, you are an independent operator of your own business. The affiliate program supplies the phone number(s), the call routing and the payment processing for you. Your job is to set up your websites or other marketing programs and do the advertising. Some affiliate programs offer some basic tips and ideas on how to market your phone sex numbers and websites, but putting them to use and getting the calls is your responsibility. With some affiliate programs you have the option of taking calls yourself and making a higher commission, or just marketing the numbers and letting the affiliate company's own operators handle the calls. Keen/Niteflirt could be placed in this category also, although it works a little differently than the other programs. With the difficulty of obtaining a merchant account these days, affiliate programs can be a great way for a one girl service to get started and you also have the benefit of having other performers available to handle your calls and help you earn money when you aren't taking calls. |
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AllieXXX |
Re: Where TO START-A NEWBIES GUIDE TO BEING A PSO | #2 | ||
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Your info is helpful but as for #1, NOT ALL DIRECT-CALL COMPANIES ARE 'TROLLING' COMPANIES.
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phonesexmandy |
rewhere | #3 | ||
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might be nice if employers would post here, their requirements, pay, and indeed if they're hiring at the mo..
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Rose |
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I think having employers post here would just mess things up. Hopefully we'll shape this thread into something that will benefit newbies for a long time. Employees may change their requirements, go out of business or stop hiring at any time.
We're also going to include info on equipment and trolling. What other questions are asked on a regular basis? Oh... how to extend calls. Did anyone save winterhaven's post (was that her uername)? |
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hotleesa |
Re: rewhere | #5 | ||
Quote: Yea, good point. Maybe we could seperate the Direct-Dial info from the trolling info. I'll rewrite something and edit that post in a bit. |
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Delilahsnaughty |
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My lil' bit of advice on how to troll the aol rooms (or "self promote")
On aol, I have a flirty profile with cute pictures, and a bit in it saying that I do NOT cyber, meet, send pics, do cam, respond to a/s/l, or chit chat. At the bottom of my profile, I tell them to IM me at a separate AIM name (I put it in my profile, but NEVER put your aol email address as your contact email for that aim name. They can and will TOS you and you can lose both accounts.) I always have an away message up on my aol account, directing whoever IMs me there to read my profile, so the only screen name I have to keep track of is my aim name (which I can give my link out on). As soon as a guy IMs me on my aim name, I'll chat for a couple. If he asks for any of the stuff I said I don't do on my profile I ignore him. As soon as he gets naughty in IM, I tell him I'm a pay to play phone girl and ask if he wants my link. If he wants to jerk off, so be it... he might bookmark me and call sometime. If after this they try to get a freebie or cyber, I iggie them, other than that I let them call me, ask billing questions, etc. I also have a 10 minute rule... if they don't want a call after 10 minutes, I tell them I have to go: "let me know if you want to play on the phone... I have to go do something else online for a lil bit baby" Sometimes they call, sometimes they don't... but I definately get enough calls from aol to make it worth it! Hope this helps |
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Rose |
Re: Where TO START-A NEWBIES GUIDE TO BEING A PSO | #7 | ||
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Thanks to delilah for moving her post on trolling AOL to this thread
Would anyone like to add their tips about trolling yahoo or any of the other chat services? |
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hotleesa |
OPENING THE CALL by WinterHaven (where are you Winterhaven?) | #8 | ||
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Hey Rose, now that all our old posts are back, I think I found it, is this the one you meant?
OPENING THE CALL contributed by WinterHaven Start with name and where you are and what you're wearing (or not wearing. Rule of thumb is to go from general to specific, out to in, top to bottom. Hi, John, this is Sexy Sadie. I'm stretched out on the couch, wearing a baby blue shortie nightgown and no panties! I have red hair with gold highlights, it comes down to my shoulderblades and is slightly wavy. I have hazel eyes and a pert little nose. I have size (whatever) tits with a (whatever) cup size and nice firm nipples. My waist is (whatever) inches and I have an innie navel! My hips are (whatever) and they sway when I walk! My butt sticks out when I'm on my knees giving head! I am 5'6" with long legs and willowy figure. I have trim ankles and just love to wear high heels! I'm just stretched out here thinking about what I would do with a hot....." You can go on and on! If you know the guy is into stockings, take a few moments to describe the ones you have on, how they felt when you slipped into them, how they look on your toes. Don't forget the toenails! So far almost *all* of the guys who were into feet that I spoke to *adored* RED toenail polish! DEscribe your underwear, your polished nails, your clothing. Try to paint a picture using all five senses. Use inagery incorporating them. You have silky hair, you're wearing jasmine perfume, you just put some cherry gel on your nipples, you're wearing red panties, your sultry voice takes care of the hearing part. Weave a spell. When you kick off your panties, make them land somewhere. "*giggle* I just kicked my panties off... they landed in the dog's bed!" Always allow a little pause between descriptions and let him respond to each if he's of a mind to. You can riff off of his responses. "I have dark brown hair..." "Ooh, is it curly?" "Very curly! It's almost as curly as the rest ... of my hair! I have brown eyes..." "I love brown eyes." "Well, I love to feast them on handsome guys! C'mere, Baby..." You can make the description last for quite some time! BTW, whatever the freakin "fashion" magazines say, the thing that turns guys ON is a nice *round* ass! Describe your butt as round, full, lush, shapely, generous... you'll have him eating out of your.... hand, you perverts! If you don't know whether guys like your fluffy bits shaved or full bushed, you can go both ways! "I shave my muffin in summer and let it go wild in winter!" There's a zillion ways to fit his fantasies. If the description you give him is at variance to your usual one, write on his card "I'm blonde" or "African American" on the card so you don't get tripped up. And slow down your verbal pace. When we're nervous, we tend to talk faster as if to 'get it over with'. Slow down a bit, even to a Southern drawl, and linger over words. It gives a much more sensuous tone and it also spends those precious minutes! Another basic sometimes forgotten: find a good, solid, COMFORTABLE work area, a chair, chaise longue, couch, bed, desk, and relax your body into it! Even if you have to go out and invest in a nice easy chair or loveseat, do it. If you have distractions, deal with them before the call. If you have (as I do) a cat that loves to walk over the phone, place the phone under a low shelf or inside open sided box that Kitty can't step into and disconnect you. Magdalena Meretrix suggests that you have a separate place in your home, a room, an alcove, that is solely for work. It's easier to let go of the mundane trivia of everyday life when you aren't purring sultry phrases while staring at your full laundry hamper! You'll be less tempted to hurry. Enjoy! Winterhaven |
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hotleesa |
SUGGESTION FOR SILENT CALLERS by WinterHaven | #9 | ||
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SUGGESTION FOR WHAT TO DO WITH SILENT CALLERS
by WinterHaven I call them "Clams"! When I get a Clam, I hit the alphabet! "Ooh, Honey, I need your Arms around me! I want to lick your B***s! You make me so hot! I want to Claw your back! Ohhh, Do me, over and over! I'm so Excited!..." and just keep zipping through the letters. If you can't think of one (like Z, X. Q!) use his name instead! When stuck with clams... make CHOWDER! Heeheeheeheeheehee! Winterhaven |
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PhonePrincessMarcia |
Re: SUGGESTION FOR SILENT CALLERS by WinterHaven | #10 | ||
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I think instead of just jumping to what you look like and what you are wearing- I would do small talk first. I always ask the guys to describe himself first, if he gives me a generalkization I ask specifics. I also ask where is is caqlling from, and then I start talking about the town and blah blah blah. Before you know it, I have just used up a good 7 minutes or so without even talking about sex. If the guy tries to jump into it, I usually say something like :Slow down, baby. I just got off work. I want to be as horney as you so start by telling me one of your fantasies- in detail. - Then HE waists the first 5 minutes or so. Great when it comes to keeping up talk times.
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hotleesa |
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I agree with you, I usually ask the guys about themselves and use openended questions.
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Rose |
Re: SUGGESTION FOR SILENT CALLERS by WinterHaven | #12 | ||
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woo hoo! Leesa, you're a gem
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jenniferfowler |
Re: SUGGESTION FOR SILENT CALLERS by WinterHaven | #13 | ||
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I have a list of PS companies and website addresses if anybody wants to PM me for it.
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phonesexamateur |
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The very first call I ever took was a guy who blatantly said that he was stroking himself, and he sounded like he was already halfway through. I wasn't ready for it, and I kind of choked up a bit. When asked what he looked like, he gave me a quick description, and I could tell by his passive manner that he wasn't interested in small talk. He then told me that I should be his boss because he'd been naughty and deserved to be punished. How do I create a scenario without asking too many non sexual questions when he's already moaning into the phone?
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angelashingler |
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The simple answer is you can't always steer the call in the direction you want, mainly because it's too easy for the caller to just hang up on you and move onto somewhere else.
I'd suggest that you must simply accept that a fair few of your callers are regular "one minute wonders" and you've just got to go along with them. If anyone can come up with an answer to the question of slowing a guy down once he's started, then the world is waiting to hear it!! |
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jenniferfowler |
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Don't try to be "non-sexual", just be descriptive instead. "Okay baby, I can be your sexy boss. Let me tell you what I am wearing while you ware waiting to be punished." Then you could ask him what he did that was so naughty and describe all the methods that you could punish him with. Never try to steer a guy from where he wants to go, but you can definitely lead him there on a crooked path
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freshberries05 |
Re: OPENING THE CALL by WinterHaven (where are you Winterhav | #17 | ||
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Thanks a million for the tips
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freshberries05 |
Re: SUGGESTION FOR SILENT CALLERS by WinterHaven | #18 | ||
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Thanks |
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LillySouthernBelle |
Re: OPENING THE CALL by WinterHaven (where are you Winterhav | #19 | ||
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Tonight is my first night as an Operator, and while I was a bit nervous, I found so much good information here! Really glad that my fiance' found this site for me, and he's encouraged me to do this for some extra cash, as I don't sleep much! Thanks! I'll be posting here now and then!
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MaggieMayMakeIt |
Re: OPENING THE CALL by WinterHaven (where are you Winterhav | #20 | ||
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WOW. YOU gals are stars!~I'm so glad I read this thread! Thanks!
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